The dilemma

Theo says he has been having blackouts. Twice last week he went blank at the wheel, lost a few seconds, and came back to himself with the car drifting. "Some kind of seizure thing, I looked it up," he says. He still has not seen a doctor. "If I report this I lose my license, then the delivery job, then the house. please. I'll be careful, I promise. Just say nothing." Tomorrow at 7:30 he picks up your kid and two others.

Your options

1. Tell him he can't drive the kids tomorrow. You'll do the run yourself.
2. Keep it between you for now, but only if he sees a doctor this week before he drives again.
3. He came to you as a friend. You keep his secret and help him through it quietly.