The dilemma

She sits at the kitchen table with the folder from her family's lawyer, the one who wrote the prenup, and reads it again like she is checking a bus time. 'I know exactly what I signed, {{NAME}},' she says, without looking up. She has not asked you for a cent. Her sister is driving over tonight, and her sister is a lawyer too.

Your options

1. Tell her the terms were written for a life that no longer exists, and that neither of you touches the money until you rewrite them together.
2. Move half of it into her account tonight, before her sister even parks, because she is the one who is sick and scared.
3. Keep to the paper you both signed, because a promise that only holds when it costs you nothing was never a promise.