The dilemma

You knock and a tired looking man opens the door. You hold out the wallet and watch his face shift from surprise to something tighter. He takes it without a word and starts pulling out the cash, counting fast, his thumb snapping through notes bundled with elastic bands and small folded paper slips. Behind you, a neighbour on the step has stopped to watch.

Your options

1. Stand there calmly and let him count. You know what you did, and his doubt does not change it.
2. Tell him gently to take his time, you can see he is shaken, and there is no rush.
3. Tell him plainly that it is all there, exactly as you found it, and you would want the same done for you.