The dilemma

The RSVP card is sitting on your kitchen counter. You have three realistic options. Your ex is still in the friend group and would love to reconnect with everyone. A coworker you have had drinks with twice has undeniable chemistry with you. Or you could just go by yourself and avoid any babysitting.

Your options

1. Bring your ex. The friend group is theirs too and cutting them out feels unkind.
2. Bring the coworker. See if the spark is real.
3. Go solo. Bringing someone is a load you don't need to carry tonight.