The dilemma

The bill is $640. Split equally, that's $80 each. Your salad and water cost $18. Your friend Jake, who ordered the wagyu and two old fashioneds, says cheerfully: 'Let's just split it, easier that way.' He's already pulling out his card. You notice your friend Maria quietly doing the math on her phone. The table goes quiet.

Your options

1. Speak up and suggest everyone pays for what they ordered
2. Say nothing and pay the $80. Friendships are more valuable than $62
3. Suggest splitting the shared appetizers equally but paying individually for mains and drinks